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Unlocking Sexual Compatibility Before Marriage and Sustaining Satisfaction in Marriage

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Unlocking Sexual Compatibility Before Marriage and Sustaining Satisfaction in Marriage

Introduction: The Unspoken Key to a Thriving Marriage

In today’s fast-paced world, discussions about love, romance, and emotional connection often take center stage when preparing for marriage. However, one critical aspect remains under-discussed: sexual compatibility before marriage and sexual satisfaction during marriage. These elements are foundational to a fulfilling partnership, yet societal taboos and discomfort often leave couples unprepared. This article explores the importance of sexual compatibility, offers practical solutions for fostering it before tying the knot, and provides professional pre-marriage advice to ensure lasting intimacy and satisfaction. Whether you’re preparing for marriage or seeking to deepen your connection, this guide will empower you with tools to build a passionate, enduring relationship.

 

Why Sexual Compatibility Matters

Sexual compatibility is the alignment of desires, preferences, and expectations between partners in their intimate lives. It’s not just about physical attraction but also about emotional connection, communication, and mutual satisfaction. Studies suggest that sexual satisfaction significantly correlates with overall marital happiness, yet many couples shy away from discussing this before marriage due to cultural norms or fear of judgment.

Failing to address sexual compatibility can lead to frustration, unmet needs, and even resentment in marriage. Conversely, couples who openly explore this aspect before committing can build a stronger foundation, ensuring both partners feel valued and fulfilled. Sexual satisfaction during marriage, meanwhile, requires ongoing effort, adaptability, and communication to maintain intimacy as life evolves.

 

Solutions for Attaining Sexual Compatibility Before Marriage

1. Open Communication About Desires and Expectations
The cornerstone of sexual compatibility is honest dialogue. Before marriage, couples should discuss their sexual preferences, boundaries, and expectations. This includes frequency, fantasies, comfort levels, and any concerns. Create a safe, judgment-free space where both partners can express themselves without fear. For example, you might ask, “What makes you feel most loved and connected during intimate moments?” This fosters understanding and sets the stage for mutual respect.

 

2. Explore Emotional Intimacy First
Sexual compatibility is deeply tied to emotional closeness. Spend time nurturing trust and vulnerability through shared experiences, deep conversations, and non-sexual physical affection like cuddling or holding hands. Emotional intimacy creates a foundation for physical intimacy, making it easier to align sexually.

 

3. Seek Premarital Counseling with a Focus on Intimacy
Professional premarital counseling can provide a structured environment to discuss sexual compatibility. A licensed therapist or counselor trained in relationship dynamics can guide couples through sensitive topics, helping them identify potential mismatches and develop strategies to address them. Look for counselors who specialize in intimacy or sex therapy for tailored guidance.

 

4. Educate Yourselves Together
Read books, attend workshops, or listen to podcasts about sexual health and intimacy. Resources like The 5 Love Languages by Gary Chapman or Come As You Are by Emily Nagoski can provide insights into understanding each other’s needs. Learning together shows commitment to building a fulfilling intimate life.

 

5. Respect Boundaries and Consent
Compatibility includes respecting each other’s boundaries. Discuss what feels comfortable and what doesn’t, and ensure both partners feel empowered to say “no” without guilt. This mutual respect strengthens trust and enhances intimacy over time.

 

Maintaining Sexual Satisfaction During Marriage

1. Prioritize Regular Check-Ins
Marriage is a journey, and sexual needs evolve with life changes like careers, parenting, or aging. Schedule regular check-ins to discuss your intimate life. These conversations don’t need to be formal—just a moment to ask, “Are we both feeling fulfilled?” or “Is there something new you’d like to explore together?”

2. Keep Romance Alive
Romance fuels sexual satisfaction. Plan date nights, surprise each other with thoughtful gestures, or write love notes to maintain the spark. Small acts of affection, like a lingering kiss or a heartfelt compliment, can reignite passion and deepen your connection.

3. Experiment and Stay Open to Growth
Sexual satisfaction thrives on variety and exploration. Be open to trying new things, whether it’s a different setting, new positions, or incorporating playful elements like role-playing. Always communicate and ensure both partners are comfortable with any experimentation.

4. Address Challenges Promptly
Issues like mismatched libidos, stress, or health concerns can affect sexual satisfaction. Don’t let these fester—address them with empathy and, if needed, professional support. A sex therapist or couples counselor can offer tools to navigate challenges like low desire or physical changes.

5. Prioritize Self-Care and Health
Physical and mental well-being directly impact sexual satisfaction. Exercise, a balanced diet, and managing stress contribute to a healthy libido. Encourage each other to prioritize self-care, as it benefits both your individual health and your shared intimacy.

 

Professional Pre-Marriage Advice for Lasting Intimacy

1. Invest in Comprehensive Premarital Counseling
Choose a counselor who addresses not only finances and communication but also intimacy and sexual compatibility. Ask questions like, “How can we ensure our intimate life stays fulfilling?” or “What tools can we use to navigate differences in desire?” A professional can provide personalized strategies to strengthen your bond.

2. Set Realistic Expectations
Media often portrays sex as effortless and always passionate, but real-life intimacy requires work. Understand that sexual compatibility doesn’t mean identical desires—it means a willingness to compromise and grow together. Discuss how you’ll handle differences, such as varying libidos or preferences.

3. Build a Culture of Appreciation
Regularly express gratitude for each other, both in and out of the bedroom. Compliment your partner’s efforts, whether it’s their thoughtfulness in planning a romantic evening or their openness in discussing intimate needs. This fosters a positive environment for vulnerability and connection.

4. Plan for the Long Term
Marriage is a lifelong commitment, and sexual satisfaction requires ongoing effort. Discuss how you’ll keep intimacy a priority amidst life’s demands. For example, agree to dedicate time each week for connection, whether it’s a date night or a quiet evening at home.

5. Seek Education, Not Assumptions
Don’t assume you know everything about your partner’s needs. Approach intimacy with curiosity and a willingness to learn. Attend workshops, read reputable resources, or consult professionals to deepen your understanding of sexual health and connection.

 

Conclusion: Building a Passionate, Lasting Connection

Sexual compatibility before marriage and satisfaction during marriage are vital for a thriving partnership, yet they require open communication, mutual respect, and ongoing effort. By fostering honest dialogue, seeking professional guidance, and prioritizing intimacy, couples can create a relationship that’s both romantically fulfilling and deeply connected. Start these conversations early, approach them with love and curiosity, and commit to growing together. Your marriage—and your shared passion—will thank you for it.

News

Amenfi Central MP Joana Gyan Cudjoe Appointed to FC Samartex 1996 Board

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Hon. Joana Gyan Cudjoe, the Member of Parliament for Amenfi Central, has been appointed as a new member of the Board of Directors of FC Samartex 1996.

 

The appointment was officially communicated in a letter dated July 5, 2025 and FC Samartex 1996 highlights Hon. Gyan Cudjoe’s expertise in business and finance, the club believes her skills will be instrumental in achieving its strategic goals and ensuring financial sustainability.

Health, Politics

Pru East MP Queries Minister on Safe Water Plans

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The Member of Parliament for Pru East, speaking on the floor of Parliament, has asked the Minister for Works and Housing about plans to ensure a community in Pru East receives safe and sustainable water as quickly as possible.

 

According to the MP for Pru East, Emmanuel Kwaku Buam one of his priorities for the constituency was securing good drinking water for his constituents

 

The Minister of Works and Housing, Hon. Kenneth Gilbert Adjei, responded to concerns about water issues in the Pru West Constituency.

 

Details of Parambo Sawaba Water Supply System

  • The Parambo Sawaba community has an abandoned small-town water supply system.
  • The system uses surface water from Lake Volta, with treatment plants located in Parambo Nsuoano.
  • It includes a 180 cubic meter concrete high-level tank and UPVC transmission and distribution pipe networks.

 

What’s Needed;

  • Rehabilitation Needed: Major rehabilitation is required to revive the water supply system, including reconstruction of the intake and control room.
  • Groundwater Challenges: Using groundwater in Parambo and surrounding Sawaba is challenging due to potential bacteriological contamination and low usage of boreholes.

 

Project Plans;

The Ministry and Community Water and Sanitation Agency plan to rehabilitate and expand the Parambo Sawaba water system under the rural water sector as part of the National Infrastructure development program.

Construction Duration: Eighteen calendar months once funds are secured.

Project Proposal: Includes reconstructing the abandoned filtration system into a rapid sand filtration system, installing an integrated purifier, constructing new floating intakes, a new water treatment plant, and laying about 25,000 meters of HDPE transmission pipeline and 18,000 meters of distribution pipe networks.

Coverage: The project aims to cover Parambo Sawaba and Prane, the district capital of Pru West Constituency.

 

According to Hon. Emmanuel Kwaku Buam, implementing this project will address the water demand for the Parambo Sawaba-Prang area for the next 35 years. This will subsequently enhance well-being in these respective areas.

 

The planned rehabilitation and expansion aim to improve access to safe water.

This aligns with goals of increasing potable water access in beneficiary districts under the Sustainable Rural Water and Sanitation Project (SRWSP).

Politics

Speaker of Parliament Submits Deputy Minister Nominees for Approval

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Rt. Hon. Alban Bagbin, Speaker of the Parliament of Ghana, has submitted the names of four nominees for deputy minister positions to Parliament for prior approval, as per Section 91(1) of the 1992 Constitution of Ghana.

 

The nominees are:

  • Ministry of Transport: Hon. Dorcas Toffey MP
  • Ministry of Foreign Affairs: Hon. James Gyakye Quayson MP
  • Ministry of Communication, Digital Technology, and Innovation: Hon. Mohammed Adam Sukparu MP
  • Ministry of Health: Hon. Grace Ayensu Dankwah MP

 

According to Rt. Hon. Bagbin, these nominees have distinguished themselves in public service and possess the necessary qualifications, experience, and integrity to support their respective ministers in effectively discharging their duties. Their curriculum vitae and supporting documents have been attached to facilitate the vetting process.

 

Rt. Hon. Bagbin trusts that Parliament will consider and approve the nominees expeditiously, extending his assurances of highest consideration on behalf of His Excellency John Dramani Mahama.

 

The Speaker of Parliament, Rt. Hon. Alban Bagbin, has referred the deputy minister nominees to the Appointments Committee for consideration. This process involves Public Hearings and a subsequent Report to the House of Parliament.

The Speaker emphasized that the Appointments Committee isn’t compelled to expedite consideration of these nominees since the decision lies wholly with them. They should proceed to do the right thing.

Politics

Sunyani West MP Condemns Violence at Ablekuman North During Re-run Elections

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The Member of Parliament for Sunyani West, Hon. Millicent Yeboah, has raised concerns about the violence that occurred at Ablekuman North during re-run elections.

 

Speaking on the floor of Parliament, Hon. Yeboah emphasized that Ghana is a beacon of democracy, and election violence should be condemned regardless of whether the government is led by the NPP or NDC.

She stressed the importance of leaders being vigilant with their comments before, during, and after elections.

 

Regarding the Ablekuman North incident, Hon. Yeboah stated that the violence should be condemned. She commended the security forces for quickly coming to the aid of the former Member of Parliament.

 

Hon. Yeboah also highlighted the need to review and amend the “anti-vigilantism” bill to address any loopholes, believing that with proper legislation, such incidents won’t recur.

She noted that when President John Mahama assumed office and was concerned about similar occurrences, he quickly issued a statement.

 

Hon. Millicent Yeboah believes that with the current female Vice President also showing concern and condemning violence, the Ablekuman North incident and previous ones will be investigated, and justice will prevail.

 

Hon. Millicent Yeboah continued her statement, urging Members of Parliament to be extra careful with their comments.

She noted that while comments can mobilize grassroots support, they shouldn’t forget that these comments can draw innocent people, including children, into the conflict.

Ultimately, some individuals may be arrested, others hospitalized, and some may even die as a result of the violence.

Sunyani West MP Condemns Violence at Ablekuman North During Re-run Elections
Sunyani West MP Condemns Violence at Ablekuman North During Re-run Elections

She asked if Members of Parliament could exercise caution in this regard.

Hon. Millicent Yeboah further expressed happiness that, as part of today’s youth, they are learning from these experiences, especially with discussions of such incidents being raised on the floor of Parliament.

News

Pru East MP Questions Road Minister on Diverted Road Issues

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The Member of Parliament for Pru East, Hon. Emmanuel Kweku Buam, has raised concerns about road issues in his constituency during a session on the floor of Parliament.

Hon. Buam revealed that a transition stretch between Atebubu has diverted the main road by about 20 meters due to transit movement from Atebubu to Yeji.

 

This diversion has led to the use of an alternative route via the Kintampo stretch, Abaase, and Prine.

He asked the Minister for Roads and Highways, Hon. Governs Kwame Agbodza, if he is aware of the damages affecting the Atebubu-Yeji Bridge area.

Hon. Buam pleaded for the issue to be considered and addressed as part of immediate plans to fix the road.

 

The Minister for Roads and Highways, Governs Kwame Agbodza responded to the questions raised.

He stated that routine maintenance is scheduled for this year. However, the extent of further works will depend on the scope of the damages described by the Pru East MP.

The Minister added that additional works will be carried out based on the facts available to his department.

 

The Road Minister further noted that the Yeji road is part of the Inter-Regional Road (IR04), specifically Road 103.5 km, which stretches from Amatin to Yeji.

This road traverses through the Amatin-Atebubu Municipality, Pru West, and Pru East districts.

News

Salaga South MP Pays Tribute to Late Professor Felix Israel Konotey-Ahulu

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The Member of Parliament for Salaga South, Hon. Zuwera Mohammed Ibrahim, has paid a personal tribute to the late Professor Felix Israel Konotey-Ahulu, a distinguished Ghanaian intellectual with global recognition.

 

Speaking on the floor of Parliament, Hon. Zuwera reflected on the life and achievements of Professor Konotey-Ahulu, who passed away on May 27, 2025, at the age of 94.

She described him as a trailblazer and one of the world’s leading experts on sickle cell disease.

 

Born in Odumase Krobo in 1930 to a Presbyterian Minister, Professor Konotey-Ahulu had a remarkable career as a physician, researcher, and scholar.

He taught research scientists at over 20 universities worldwide, including institutions in Turkey, Brazil, Greece, Singapore, Australia, India, and many others.

In addition to his medical and academic achievements, Professor Konotey-Ahulu was a talented pianist and composer of hymns.

 

Hon. Zuwera’s tribute highlighted the significant contributions and legacy of Professor Konotey-Ahulu, celebrating his life and impact on the global scientific community.

Hon. Zuwera further shared her personal experience with Professor Israel Felix Konotey-Ahulu, recalling their meeting in London where she was stationed as a minister counselor and head of information at the Ghana High Commission.

She described him as gentle in manner and engaging, with a depth of knowledge that commanded respect.

 

Contrary to her expectations of meeting a stern medical professional, Hon. Zuwera found Professor Konotey-Ahulu to be warm and approachable, with a passion for bringing healing and relief to his patients.

Her encounter with him left a lasting impression, and she came to appreciate the well-deserved respect he received from those who knew him.

 

Concluding, Hon. Zuwera Ibrahim reflected on her interactions with Professor Israel Felix Konotey-Ahulu, recalling how he would often take time to discuss Ghana’s issues during consultations at his practice.

She credited him with instilling in her a sense of hope and optimism for the country’s future, despite its challenges.

 

Professor Konotey-Ahulu’s passion for finding solutions to Ghana’s problems, particularly in healthcare, left a lasting impression on Hon. Zuwera.

He proposed practical ways to improve the healthcare system, including aligning infrastructure with scientific research and making universal healthcare accessible and efficient.

His dedication to addressing pressing health issues, such as sickle cell disease and HIV/AIDS, demonstrated his commitment to improving the lives of Ghanaians.

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DeBruyne Travel and Tour Agency Sets New Standards in Personalized Travel for Ghanaians and Global Clients

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DeBruyne Travel and Tour Agency, a rising star in the outbound travel industry, is redefining what it means to travel with purpose, style, and personalization. Based in Ghana, the agency is gaining a reputation for its custom-made travel experiences, outstanding client service, and strong core values, all of which set it apart in a competitive market.

 

DeBruyne was founded from a deep love for travel and a desire to offer Ghanaians seamless, world-class travel experiences.

“We wanted to create something more than a travel agency,” said [C.E.O. HENRY OPPONG ]. “We wanted to offer journeys that are memorable, transformative, and entirely Customized to the traveler.”

 

What started as a vision to bridge the gap between global destinations and Ghanaian travelers has quickly evolved into a trusted brand offering curated Travel routes across Europe, Asia, the Americas, and beyond.
DeBruyne prides itself on understanding each client’s unique preferences, from adventurous solo travelers to romantic honeymooners and family groups. Every trip begins with an in-depth consultation to align the traveler’s goals with personalized recommendations.

 

One standout package recently crafted was a “Romantic Euro-Asian Escape” that combined Paris, Istanbul, and Bali into one seamless experience, complete with private cruises, cultural immersion, and luxury beach stays. And someone might ask what the “Romantic Euro-Asian Escape” is? It is a customized luxury travel package designed by DeBruyne Travel and Tour Agency. It blends the style and charm of Europe with the magic or charm and beauty of Asia-perfect for couples, honeymooners, or anyone celebrating love and connections.

“We don’t just plan travel,” said [Travel Advisor YAYRA ABISH AGBOVI]. “We curate life-changing moments.”

 

The agency operates under five guiding principles—TULIP: Trust, Uniqueness, Loyalty, Integrity, and Professionalism. These values influence every aspect of the business, from client relations to staff recruitment and partnerships.

 

“Our clients trust us because we’re honest, transparent, and truly committed to their satisfaction,” said [Operations Manager NANA TAKYI FREMPONG] “And we make sure our team lives and breathes these values in every interaction.”

 

DeBruyne is on a mission to become Ghana’s most trusted outbound tour agency, with a vision that extends globally. Their strategy includes enhancing digital accessibility, expanding partnerships, and offering specialized travel packages with authentic local experiences and premium service.

 

Upcoming offerings include:

  • “Festive Europe 2025” – A curated December itinerary through Paris, Vienna, and Prague.
  • “Summer in Zanzibar” – A tropical escape featuring beachside villas and cultural excursions.
  • Exclusive dining and wellness experiences across Asia, Europe, and North Africa.

 

DeBruyne’s commitment to excellence continues to earn glowing testimonials. One solo traveler, reflecting on a recent Northern Lights trip to Iceland, shared: “It was the most empowering experience of my life, and DeBruyne made it feel effortless.”

 

DeBruyne is a Ghanaian-owned outbound travel agency specializing in personalized travel planning, luxury experiences, and global destination management. With a client- first philosophy and values rooted in TULIP—Trust, Uniqueness, Loyalty, Integrity, and Professionalism—DeBruyne continues to help travelers discover the world in ways that reflect who they are.

 

CONTACT
HENRY OPPONG, FOUNDER/ C.E.O
+233 [0538878268]
Email: DeBruyneTandT10@gmail.com Website: www.debruyne.travel
Location: Accra, Ghana
Instagram: @debruynetravel

Features

Response to Hon. Xavier Sosu’s Parliamentary Statement on Ama’s Case

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Response to Hon. Xavier Sosu’s Parliamentary Statement on Ama’s Case

 

Dear Hon. Xavier Sosu,

The Human Rights Reporters Ghana (HRRG) and the Justice Revived Foundation (JRF) commend your efforts to highlight the horrific gang-defilement of Ama, a 13-year-old pupil, on the floor of Parliament to garner support for her justice.

 

Your advocacy as a renowned human rights activist and lawyer is admired across the board, and we appreciate your intent to bring attention to this grave issue.

However, we are deeply disappointed by your failure to acknowledge the significant contributions of HRRG and JRF, which have been pivotal in investigating and amplifying this case to ensure justice for Ama and safeguard her rights as a vulnerable teenager.

 

We are equally concerned by certain details in your statement, which you claim were obtained from police sources and presented as facts.

These assertions appear to dismiss the findings of civil society organizations like ours without due diligence. It is surprising that, given your pedigree in human rights, you would place such heavy reliance on a police report without cross-checking its veracity with organizations that have conducted thorough investigations into this matter.

 

A mere police report, without independent verification, is insufficient to establish the full truth in a case of such critical human rights implications.

HRRG and JRF have worked tirelessly to uncover the details of Ama’s ordeal, as outlined in our press statement. Our investigations, grounded in Ama’s courageous testimony, revealed the extent of the atrocities committed by over 20 perpetrators, led by Clement Kwame.

 

 

We have advocated for swift justice, comprehensive support for Ama, and systemic measures to prevent such crimes. Dismissing or overlooking our findings risks perpetuating erroneous impressions and undermining the collective effort to secure justice.

 

We respectfully urge you to:

Acknowledge the contributions of HRRG and JRF in advocating for Ama’s justice and amplifying her voice.

Exercise caution in presenting unverified information as fact, particularly on sensitive human rights issues, and engage with civil society organizations to ensure accuracy.

Continue supporting Ama’s case by advocating for the apprehension of all perpetrators, including Clement Kwame, and ensuring robust legal and psychological support for Ama.

 

We remain committed to working collaboratively with all stakeholders, including yourself, to ensure justice for Ama and to protect vulnerable children across Ghana.

Let us unite in this cause, recognizing the collective efforts of all involved, to create a safer and more just society.

 

Sincerely,

Human Rights Reporters Ghana (HRRG) & Justice Revived Foundation (JRF)

Features

THE HUMANITY OF POWER: THE SOLUDO-SON EXAMPLE

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We live in a country where political figures and privileged occupants of high public office often maintain stern public personas that prop them up on an intimidating pedestal. Their paraphernalia of office screams power. Some even appear as unapproachable demigods. And the halo of clout around them dazzles the ordinary. The question is, are public leaders not humans anymore?

Of course, they are humans, but only a few act human. Among the few can be said to be Anambra State Governor, Prof. Chukwuma Charles Soludo, CFR, who has consistently shown that true leadership sometimes means stepping off a high horse and into your child’s world.

 

The world-renowned technocrat, erudite professor and former Central Bank of Nigeria governor lately melted hearts across social media when he joined his son Ozonna in a viral video dance challenge for the young artist’s latest single, “Big Flex.”

The video, which has captured the attention of major Nigerian news and entertainment blogs, shows something remarkably uncommon in Nigerian politics: a high-ranking public official simply being a down-to-earth dad to a happy, loved son. Dressed in matching baseball caps with coordinated simple T-shirts, father and son moved in perfect synchronisation, displaying what one observer called “impressive dance moves” that have warmed the hearts of Nigerians nationwide.

 

What makes the father-son moment particularly exciting is how not many Nigerians have seen Governor Soludo in such a very lighthearted, convivial manner. Here was a man who once managed Nigeria’s critical monetary policy, now happily grooving to his son’s Afropop beats in a GenZ outlook, without a care for political propriety. Such simplicity of power!

The video has generated thousands of reactions across social media platforms, with many commentators focusing on the governor’s unconditional support for his son. As one fan noted, “All I see here is a father supporting his son,” while another observed, “If his father supports him, who are you to judge him?”

 

This public display of paternal love challenges the conservative expectations of political figures in Nigeria, where leaders are often expected to maintain stern, unapproachable personas in order to command respect. Governor Soludo’s willingness to participate in his son’s creative endeavours demonstrates a refreshing authenticity that touches base with everyday Nigerian families.

 

Ozonna Soludo himself, who is making waves online with his latest single “Big Flex,” represents a new generation of Nigerian youth who are choosing creative paths over traditional careers expected by parents. The talented artiste is known for his ability to skillfully combine pop, dance, and African rhythms with other music genres and boasts over 60,000 followers on Instagram and over 20,000 on other platforms.

The governor’s public support for his son’s musical career thus conveys an inspiring impression about parental acceptance and the importance of nurturing individual talents. Despite initial reservations by his parents, Ozonna remained steadfast in his decision to follow his passion, eventually earning their understanding. This journey from reservations to acceptance reflects the experiences of many Nigerian families who are often at loggerheads with changing career landscapes.

 

As the dance video is reaching hundreds of thousands of viewers and accumulating countless likes and shares across social media platforms, the widespread coverage really accentuates the public’s hunger for authentic, relatable content from their leaders.

 

In an age of carefully curated political images, Governor Soludo’s spontaneous dance moves may have achieved what many political campaigns struggle to accomplish: genuine connection with the people which is reminiscent of the ‘gwo gwo’ dance he appeared in some time ago.

The most poignant aspect of this viral moment lies in its demonstration of unconditional parental love. As one commenter wisely noted, “The first and only people that owe you love at all times are your parents. Please, if you can’t love your child unconditionally, don’t bring any child into this world”.

 

Interestingly, Ozonna Soludo’s musical journey reflects a broader trend in Nigerian entertainment, where young artists from prominent families are carving out their own creative spaces.

For instance, this reflects the path taken by superstars like Davido, whose father, business mogul, Dr. Adedeji Adeleke initially had reservations about his son’s musical career but eventually became one of his biggest supporters.

Similarly, Wizkid’s journey from Surulere to global stardom was supported by family members who recognised his talent and passion. Burna Boy’s rise to Grammy-winning status was nurtured by his mother, Bose Ogulu, who later became his manager. These success stories confirm that when parents support their children’s artistic ambitions, the results can be extraordinary.

 

In all, Governor Soludo’s dance video challenges the notion that high-profile parents must maintain distance from their children’s unconventional career choices. Instead, it suggests that true leadership can be humane at the homefront, where supporting your child’s dreams, regardless of societal expectations, becomes the ultimate expression of love and wisdom. It also shows that allowing children to chart their own course in life, with every parent choosing love over convention, support over control, and understanding over judgment, can lead to authentic happiness and success in the long term. Kudos to Ozonna…and let’s do the “Big Flex” together!

 

Christian ABURIME