Portable Delivers Blunt Relationship Advice – Sparks Debate on Modern Dating

Portable Delivers Blunt Relationship Advice - Sparks Debate on Modern Dating

In a candid social media rant that’s lighting up timelines across Nigeria and beyond, controversial Afrobeat singer Habeeb Okikiola, better known as Portable, has unleashed a no-holds-barred message to women about navigating love, value, and self-respect.

The 30-year-old Zeh Nation boss, famed for hits like “Zazu Zeh” and his unfiltered persona, took to X (formerly Twitter) to warn against settling for less, urging ladies to prioritize their worth over fleeting connections. The post, shared alongside glamorous shots of him in traditional Yoruba attire, has garnered thousands of views, likes, and heated replies in just hours.

 

The Viral Rant: “Obirin Ni Ota Obirin” – Women as Their Own Worst Enemies?

Portable’s thread begins with a fiery Pidgin English takedown of societal pressures on women: “Obirin ni Ota Obirin them no want you there that’s why them dey tell you make you comot for your man house them no fit buy your one week food.” Translated, it’s a sharp critique of women who sabotage each other by advising a friend to leave her partner’s home, only to lack the means to support her afterward. He paints a picture of jealousy disguised as empowerment, where “sisters” push for independence without a safety net.

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But the real mic-drop comes in his follow-up: “Reason before you go anywhere no man go make you happy like the man wey put you for house value what you have make you no go come back like Aya oba wey park comot for omo Ola house don’t dey beg to come back because no responsibility man out side na hookup full out.”

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In essence: Think twice before leaving a stable home for the unknown—irresponsible men outside are just casual hookups, not keepers. Portable emphasizes that the man who invests in your home and security is irreplaceable, and chasing “fun” elsewhere often leads to regret and begging to return.

 

Why Portable? From Street Hustler to Relationship Guru

Portable, whose real name is Habeeb Badmus, rose from the gritty streets of Ogun State to Afrobeat stardom with his high-energy tracks and larger-than-life antics. Known for beefs with rivals like Davido and his multiple baby mamas, he’s no stranger to controversy. Yet, his unapologetic takes on life— from street survival to family dynamics—resonate with fans who see him as an everyman philosopher. This isn’t his first dip into relationship commentary; earlier this year, he publicly called out “gold diggers” in the industry, but here, he’s flipping the script to empower women against toxic influences.

The timing couldn’t be more spot-on. Amid a surge in viral discussions about “situationships” and financial independence in African relationships, Portable’s words echo broader conversations. Recent X trends like #AgbadianAdvice (nodding to his Ogun roots) and posts from influencers debating “just manage him” mentalities have amplified the buzz. One reply to Portable’s thread quipped, “Uncle Portable don turn therapist! But e dey make sense sha,” racking up likes.

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Fan Reactions: Empowerment or Old-School Shade?

The internet, as expected, is divided. Supporters hail it as a wake-up call: “Portable spilling tea on how women pull each other down instead of building up. Real talk!” tweeted @ZehNationFan, with 200+ retweets. Others see it as a subtle jab at single life, with one user replying, “Bros, na you wan make woman turn house slave? Value yourself first!” The thread has sparked 21+ replies, including memes blending Portable’s lyrics with rom-com clips.

Critics, however, call it patriarchal packaging: “This advice from a man with 4 baby mamas? Make e no funny,” jabbed a female follower. Yet, the engagement metrics tell a different story.

 

Cultural Flex: Owning Yoruba Heritage in Style

Beyond the advice, Portable’s outfit steals the show. The white ensemble, paired with gold accents and those iconic coral pieces, screams “Omo Oba” (king’s child). Coral beads, or “Ileke,” aren’t just jewelry—they’re status symbols in Yoruba culture, signifying wealth, protection, and ancestry. Portable’s styling tips? Layer boldly, mix metals for edge, and let the beads tell your story. It’s a reminder that Afrobeat stars like him are keeping indigenous fashion alive, one viral post at a time.

As Portable tours for his upcoming album, this moment cements his role as more than a musician—he’s a cultural provocateur. Will his words change hearts, or just fuel more debates? One thing’s clear: In the game of love and beads, Portable’s playing to win.

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What’s your take on Portable’s advice? Drop it in the comments—does it hit home, or miss the mark?


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