My Scorpion Tattoo is making me loose good men.

We received a deeply personal and vulnerable story from a reader we’ll call Gladys, who is seeking guidance on a sensitive issue impacting her current dating life.

 

Gladys shared that in 2021, during a passionate relationship, she got permanent tattoos as a symbol of her love for her partner, whom she affectionately nicknamed “Scorpion.” These tattoos included his nickname on her backside and a scorpion design near her intimate area.

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However, the relationship ended in 2022, leaving Gladys with permanent reminders of a love that has faded. Since then, she has found it challenging to form new, stable relationships.

 

She recounts that potential partners become immediately disinterested upon seeing the tattoos, particularly the one near her vagina. Despite her attempts to explain the personal history behind the artwork and assure them that there’s nothing “mysterious or demonic” about it, she says four promising connections have ended abruptly.

Gladys has also explored tattoo removal options, but unfortunately, the tattoos have proven resistant to these efforts.

 

Understandably, this situation has left her feeling isolated and longing for intimacy, as some men have reacted with harsh judgments, even labeling her negatively and leaving abruptly upon seeing the scorpion tattoo.

Gladys is bravely sharing her story and asking for advice on how to move forward and navigate the dating world with these permanent reminders of a past relationship.

 

This is a space for understanding, empathy, and constructive advice. What thoughts or suggestions do you have for Gladys as she navigates this challenging situation? Share your insights in the comments below.

 

Possible Discussion Points:
Emotional Healing: How can Gladys continue to heal emotionally from the past relationship and the subsequent negative experiences?

Communication Strategies: Are there ways Gladys can approach the topic of her tattoos with potential partners that might foster understanding rather than immediate rejection?

 

Self-Acceptance: How can Gladys cultivate self-acceptance and confidence regardless of her tattoos?

Tattoo Modification/Cover-Up: Are there more advanced or alternative tattoo modification or cover-up options she might explore?

 

Finding Understanding Partners: What advice can be offered on finding partners who are open-minded and accepting of her past?

Addressing Misconceptions: How can societal misconceptions or judgments surrounding tattoos be addressed in such situations?

 

Let’s offer Gladys our support and thoughtful perspectives.