Making your Husband feel like a King

Making your Husband feel like a King


1-. Be a Queen in your own right. Be confidently you. This makes him feel he has a strong person who can hold her own next to him.

2-. Be proud of his achievements and efforts, especially when he goes out of his way to be there for the family.

3-. Don’t greet him with issues when he comes home. Greet each other warmly when he comes home, when he has relaxed and you have found out how each other has been, then talk about issues.


4-. Don’t let the home be filled with drama. It is easier for the wife to stay in the house but for husbands, when there is drama, they easily tend to avoid being at home.

5-. Don’t make major decisions without consulting with him, not because you need his approval but to demonstrate you are doing life with him. Don’t be Miss Independent. Marriage is about interdependence.

6-. Don’t gossip about him to your friends or bad mouth him behind his back. A King values loyalty.


7-. Stay faithful to him. Just because you are beautiful and sexy doesn’t mean you entertain other men. Show him your sexiness and beauty belongs to only him

8-. When he does wrong, correct him with love, know when is the right time to let him know he is on the wrong. Don’t let that wrong cancel all the other good he has done for you for years.

9-. Speak to him with a tone of love and respect. It’s not what you say but how you say it.


10-. Have great intimacy with him, you are the one he comes to for comfort, relaxation, pleasure, rejuvenation and rest; don’t push him away

11-. Make him feel needed. Ask for his help and assistance even when you can do it on your own. A King loves to save the day of his Queen and feel like he is adding value

12-. Talk Kingdom talk. Talk great things about the two of you and your family; your investments, your goals as a couple, how can you two maximize your potential, how can you raise great children of excellence. A King loves vision-driven conversations, not talks full of complaints, past mistakes, fear…


13-. Make your bedroom our place of sanctuary… All quarrels and bad vibes will be resolved there either through conversation or sex… Anything goes.

14-. Queens nuture empires, being a wife to a king doesn’t mean you shouldn’t build your own business or career or wealth but the acknowledgement of your king in your activities will make him more proud of you. There’s joy when a king’s wants to makes financially or critical decisions and have to reach out to her Queen to know her decision and thoughts about it. You need to prove and show your worth.


15-. Find your passion and purpose. We all have what we strive to do and what makes us happy. Find yourself first. It will be easier to love your king more.

16-. Create room for healthy and playful competitions in your home. Make a bet with your king that would ever loses a chess game cooks or orders foods. Play soccer or sport with your kids while playing against your king. The good thing about playful competition at home is it lighten your burden from work and create room for fun and more happiness at home.


17-. Plan surprised dinner night or lunch date without your king’s knowledge. He will be wowed when he knows.

18-. Redecorate together… Making decisions about the looks of your home or sanctuary. Most times know his thoughts and surprise him along.

19-. Gift your king rare stuff that will cost you. Trust me they will reward you 100 times more. This always works. Even if he can’t afford it at the moment he will work 10times harder to put a smile on your face with more surprises.


20-. As a Queen… How you look and dress reflect on who your king is. Every king wants their queen to be admired by other kings. He won’t tell you this but it makes him more boastful and proud of you his Queen.

Wish you the very best!!!

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